abrasive? who says?
In a comment to the previous entry, Clancy writes of the Beastie Boys: "I find the beats and the delivery of the lyrics really abrasive, to the point that their music can make me anxious." As an extremely sound-sensitive person, I know where she's coming from. Yet I've also come to understand that there are many sounds I find distracting or irritating that others enjoy or ignore and a few sounds that I like that others can't stand. How do we learn to appreciate or despise different sounds? How much is explained by physical differences between us (ears, ear canals, density of bones)? And how much by the different experiences we have that condition our responses? Can we reprogram our responses to sound?
In a related story, there's a lot going on in this New York Times article,1 of course, but the interesting thing to me is the disagreement about whether the sounds made by small children are euphonous or cacophonous.
Actually, that's somewhat reductive, isn't it? A number of different sound-related questions arise:
- Are people with children less likely to be annoyed with the sounds of small children than people without?
- Should children make one sort of sounds outside and another sort inside?
- Are the sounds expected from children in a coffee and pastry shop in the hip part of town different than those expected from them in a "family friendly" restaurant?
Where do our answers to these questions come from? Why do we have such a hard time resolving these sound-related social conflicts? Why do they evoke such strong responses?2 Some, like R. Murray Schafer3 in The Tuning of the World, would argue that we should not pursue noise abatement strategies but rather should create acoustic environments in which the sound we experience is pleasing to us. It's interesting to imagine what Schafer might say about the conflict over children's behavior in coffeeshops. (Of course, I'm unpersuaded that the anecdotes related in the NYT story add up to any sort of meaningful, widespread trend, but that's journalism for you.)
- "At Center of a Clash, Rowdy Children in Coffee Shops," by Jodi Wilgoren (New York Times; November 11, 2005); see Technorati's list of blogs linking to this article here and here.
- See this blog entry from Dr. Virago for another example.
- See the World Soundscape Project, founded by Schafer in the late 1960s. See also this entry in The Canadian Encyclopedia.